Friday, January 18, 2019

Why its Great to be a Woman and Why we are Incomplete Without Men as Observed in John 20

Okay, ladies, if you know me, you know this is not a man-bashing blogpost  - nor is it about romance. What could this possibly about then. Well, stick around, keep reading and I'll explain  

There is a host of reasons why I believe its good to be of the "fairer" sex - has nothing to do with complexion. My reasons for ,the purposes of this post, come from John 20, and when you see it, you will think it's really cool, too.

Why Creation Needs Both Men AND Women

In this post-Crucifixion passage of Scripture, we see the disciples scurrying around most likely still scared from what they just witnessed a few days before. So let's get into this.

We're going to close attention to the following blocks of that chapter: VV. 1-18:


                                The Empty Tomb

20 Now the first day of the week Mary Magdalene went to the tomb early, while it was still dark, and saw that the stone had been taken away from the tomb. Then she ran and came to Simon Peter, and to the other disciple, whom Jesus loved, and said to them, “They have taken away the Lord out of the tomb, and we do not know where they have laid Him.”


Peter therefore went out, and the other disciple, and were going to the tomb. So they both ran together, and the other disciple outran Peter and came to the tomb first. And he, stooping down and looking in, saw the linen cloths lying there; yet he did not go in. Then Simon Peter came, following him, and went into the tomb; and he saw the linen cloths lying there, and the [a]handkerchief that had been around His head, not lying with the linen cloths, but folded together in a place by itself. Then the other disciple, who came to the tomb first, went in also; and he saw and believed. For as yet they did not [b]know the Scripture, that He must rise again from the dead. 10 Then the disciples went away again to their own homes.

Observations:

The woman:(in pink highlight)

1. She got up early while it was still dark and went to the Jesus's tomb. Not knowing what she would find there but out of pure love.
2. She saw that the stone had been taking away from the tomb
3. She took off running to the disciple she saw as the leader, Simon Peter, and the other lead disciple, John, and reported what she had found.
4. She wanted an answer and she thought the men could provide it/fix the problem


The Men:(in blue highlight)

1. They were determined to get to the bottom of this mystery of the missing body of Christ so they RAN to the tomb at first
2. John outran Peter together and got to the tomb first but did not go in he first stooped down and looked in, observing what he could from the outside
3. Peter once he got there went right in. Trust Peter to just walk right in taking a very close look at what was there - cloths but no body that had been wrapped in it
4. John then came in and saw the same thing Peter did and - "believed." The Scripture tells us they did not yet know that He would rise again. Yet, John believed. Incredible. Love believes, hopes. But then, what did they do 
5. They went away TO THEIR OWN HOMES

Now why was it important to note that the men went to their own homes and not elsewhere to share the news with anyone? Were they dejected or not willing to share? I believe they realized they could not fix the problem and just went home. They did not have a meeting, at least we are not told that but we are specifically told the when to their respective homes.

Lets's continue on then ...

                       Mary Magdalene Sees the Risen Lord

11 But Mary stood outside by the tomb weeping, and as she wept she stooped down and looked into the tomb. 12 And she saw two angels in white sitting, one at the head and the other at the feet, where the body of Jesus had lain. 13 Then they said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping?”
She said to them, “Because they have taken away my Lord, and I do not know where they have laid Him.”
14 Now when she had said this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, and did not know that it was Jesus. 15 Jesus said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you seeking?”
She, supposing Him to be the gardener, said to Him, “Sir, if You have carried Him away, tell me where You have laid Him, and I will take Him away.”
16 Jesus said to her, “Mary!”
She turned and said to [c]Him, “Rabboni!” (which is to say, Teacher).
17 Jesus said to her, “Do not cling to Me, for I have not yet ascended to My Father; but go to My brethren and say to them, ‘I am ascending to My Father and your Father, and to My God and your God.’ ”
18 Mary Magdalene came and told the [d]disciples that she had seen the Lord, and that He had spoken these things to her.

The men were gone but Mary Magdalene lingered at the empty tomb. What did she expect to find their? Love lingers where there is no explanation until there is one. Remember, this was the same Mary Magdalene out of whom Jesus had cast 7 demons, who later anointed his feet with costly oil and wiped it with her hair, of whom Jesus had said the one who is forgiven much loves much and that her act of love would be memorialized for ever and spoken of. That Mary. 

The Woman - Mary Magdalene Waits and Encounters Angels and Jesus

1. Stood outside of the empty tomb - weeping
2. Stopped weeping, stooped down and looked into the tomb
3. SAW TWO ANGELS IN WHITE IN THE TOMB, one at the head and the other at the feet where Jesus body had lain. They asked her why she was crying
4. She told told them she came to see Jesus, her Lord, and his body was no longer there and she did not know where they had LAID HIM - still assuming Him to be dead
5. But the angels did not answer her, when she turned around it was the Lord Jesus Himself who answered her. How did He answer her? He called her by her name: "Mary!"
6. She then recognized the One she loved
7. Knowing that she would embrace Him, Jesus told her not to CLING to Him as He had not yet ascended to the Father and HER FATHER, HIS GOD AND HER GOD
8. Mary went back and told the disciples that she had seen Jesus and what He had said to her.

Amazing! A lot is going in this passage and I'd like to share my observations.

Here is why we need men AND women. We women are curious beings and so we often tend to be the first ones to spot a problem, such as the misplaced tombstone. For Mary, that was enough to alert her there was a problem. She did nothing else at that point but went to report it to the men. The men then ran to investigate. Isn't that what men do? They are going to get to the bottom of that problem and fix it! So one of the men outran the other, the one described as the "one whom Jesus loved" outran Peter. Love will cause a person to speedily come to lend a hand and love itself will give us turbo power to outrun another. 

When the men got there, they did what the woman did not, the one who got there first did not go in but stayed outside and observed. The one, brash Peter, went in and investigated the site and notice the body was missing, but the head cloth was neatly folded apart from the other cloths. And while John believed once he saw the empty tomb - that was it. Both of the men went to their own homes as mentioned above but bears repeating.

BUT MARY, she hung around. She was not satisfied with the results and continued to sit outside of the tomb ... WEEPING for the one she loved.

Now, it was when Mary stopped weeping that she looked into the tomb and SAW TWO ANGELS IN WHITE. They asked her when she was crying, she answered but they did not answer her. When she turned around, IT WAS JESUS SPEAKING TO HER asking her the same question. "Why are you weeping?" Then she answered and HE CALLED HER NAME  "MARY!" 

Once Mary heard her name spoken by the One she loved and Who loved her, she immediately recognized Him as her beloved TEACHER. 

I learnt a lot about love* in this chapter. To name a few, I have learnt that:

1.   Love asks questions
2.   Love insists on answers
3.   Love lingers
4.   Love will give you turbo power
5.   Love persists pasts impossibilities
6.   Love sees into another realm
7.   Love will bring you into divine encounters
8.   Love is not afraid of or to sacrifice
9.   Love is not too proud to ask for help 
10. Love recognizes its own
11. Love expresses itself in earnest and does not pretend all is fine when it isn't
12. God is love and He will give the answers
13. Only God can fix problems of love
14. Love always wins the day

* Love refers to God's kind of love in us and through us

These were my observations while reading this Scripture. I hope you enjoyed it and received from the Lord through something I've said. If you have, please do not hesitate to comment. Let me know you are out there. 

Until next time, keep reading, studying, praying, worshiping, and most importantly spending quality time with Him just lingering in His presence LISTENING to and ENJOYING Him.

His love to you and mine, too!

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